Jealousy and Self-esteem

Just like jealousy is the surest way to get rid of the very person you are afraid of losing. When you say I love you it means “I want the very best for you whether or not am in the picture” We must acknowledge any feelings of jealousy to understand what they are, jealousy is the signpost of the longing in your subconscious mind.

You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy. Instead of thinking about what you are missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else is missing.

If you are not good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, you will resent the time and energy you give another person that you are not even giving to yourself.

We have such a poor images of ourselves that we have difficulty understanding the goodness other sees in us. When someone pays us compliment, we are quick to point out what is wrong with us, when some encourage us, we remind them of our failures

Having a low opinion of yourself is not "modesty". It's self-destruction. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not "egotism". It's a necessary precondition to happiness and success

 “ I compliment the a lady about her rather resounding figure and she quipped with about her big bottom line, AM NOT BLIND SISTA, WHO GIVE A FLYING CRAP ABOUT YOUR BEHIND” we play ourselves down to such  a degree that others begin to question our faith.

Self-confidence gives you the freedom to make mistakes and cope with failure without feeling that your world has come to an end or that you are a worthless person, once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.

We can only accept compliment others give if we give them to ourselves first. Your chances of success in any undertaking can always be measured by your belief in yourself.

Go out in the world and work like money doesn't matter, Sing as if no one is listening, and Love as if you have never been hurt, and Dance as if no one is watching, Laugh at yourself, but don't ever aim your doubt at yourself. Be bold. When you embark for strange places, don't leave any of yourself safely on shore. Have the nerve to go into unexplored territory.

There are times when we find ourselves at odd with someone. It may seem that our only choice is to walk away but for our ego to prove we are right and walking away will make the other person a winner, your ego keep recognising there is another choice, whatever situation faces us we must recognise our choice to peace, we can let go the need to prove ourselves, a friend one said,

Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance

“Don’t argue with a stupid person for they drag you down and bit you with their vast knowledge in stupidity”

Just think of how stupid the average person is, and then realize half of them are even stupider! Trust me there is no rehab for stupidity