Friday, 9 July 2010
Thursday, 8 July 2010
NATURAL HIGHS
1. Being in love.
2. Laughing so hard your face hurts.
3. A hot shower.
4. No queues at the supermarket.
5. Taking a drive on a pretty road.
6. Hearing your favourite song on the radio.
7. Lying in bed listening to the rain outside.
8. Hot towels fresh out of the dryer.
9. Chocolate milkshake ... (or vanilla ... or strawberry!)
10. A bubble bath.
11. Giggling.
12. A good conversation.
13. Finding a N500 note in your coat when you're broke.
14. Running through sprinklers.
15. Laughing for absolutely no reason at all.
16. Having someone tell you that you're beautiful.
17. Accidentally overhearing someone say something nice about you.
18. Waking up and realising you still have a few hours left to sleep.
19. Making new friends or spending time with old ones.
20. Having someone play with your hair.
21. Sweet dreams.
22. Making eye contact with a cute stranger.
23. Holding hands with someone you care about.
24. Running into an old friend and realising that some things (good or
bad) never change.
25. Watching the expression on someone's face as they open a
much-desired present from you.
26. Getting out of bed every morning and being grateful for another
beautiful day.
27. Knowing that somebody misses you.
28. Getting a hug from someone you care about deeply.
29. Knowing you've done the right thing, no matter what other people think
Definition of a Man
While attempting to achieve all that makes up the idealistic man, I still stand alone staring up at the peak of the mountain, sometimes unable to make sense of it all.
Concerned about the question of my existence, like a child just beginning to live, there are things about Love, Life, and especially Women that I will never fully understand!
Once a wise person told me that, a man can't actually know himself until he knows what he truly wants from a woman. He has to prove his worth in more than the obvious ways known to the world.
It's more than his ability to make a buck; drive the biggest truck, and definitely, not how well he can fu*k!
Reality, which is fleeting at best, has a way to put the strongest of men to the ultimate test. Constantly pushing our ability to resist falling into line behind the rest of the losers in life, abusers of hearts, terrorists of the minds, and destroyers of the soul.
I must stand up and be counted more different than what is expected from the classless. Defining myself by what my soul knows to be right, embracing the diversity present in each of us!
To actually count as a man, one must always be able to separate himself from the beliefs and shallowness of the masses that make up humanity! So, let's drink a toast to the fool, who believes that he's too cool to belong to the community that surrounds him.
We, all must refuse to limit our hearts and minds to just attempting to find that person who fits the general definition of fine!
I am the sole survivor of countless wars for control of my feelings! Now is the time to throw off the chains that have blinded me to this plane of existence. Believing in myself, I must take flight regardless of the chances that may lead to a loss or failure.
Yet, I will never give up, always striving to be more than the average man, because after it's all said and done, it's my destiny to define!
Sayings
OLD ADAGE: If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and walks like a duck. Chances are it's probably a duck.
MORAL: No matter how you spell, or abbreviate it, the core definition remains the same.
A true "BOSS" never refers to himself as such. His presence, personality, and actions commands that reverence of his subordinates.
A THUG usually doesn't have the self discipline to attain a JOB, which may provide the means of supporting a family. Therefore a THUG, more often than naught get's a rap sheet. (I ain't talking about no record deal.)
For those of you exposing your best physical attributes on your webcams and posting the pictures. Do you realize they are there for the whole world to see? Although, I am but a MAN, if you don't respect yourself enough to clothe that which is naked, I will gladly look.
Girls and Women
Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls make you come home. Grown women make you want to come home.
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a little bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special-and goes to kick it with her own friends.
Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue. Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that was just one man.
Girls fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back-and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends
Life
A Life Poem Life can seem ungrateful and not always kind.
Life can pull at your heartstrings and play with your mind...
Life can be blissful and happy and free...
Life can put beauty in the things that you see...
Life can place challenges right at your feet...
Life can make good of the hardships we meet...
Life can overwhelm you and make your head spin...
Life can reward those determined to win...
Life can be hurtful and not always fair...
Life can surround you with people who care...
Life clearly does offer its Up and its
Life's days can bring you both smiles and frowns...
Life teaches us to take the good with the bad...
Life is a mixture of happy and sad...
So...
Take the Life that you have and give it your best...
Think positive; be happy let God do the rest...
Take the challenges that life has laid at your feet...
Take pride and be thankful for each one you meet...
To yourself give forgiveness if you stumble and fall...
Take each day that is dealt you and give it your all...
Take the love that you're given and return it with care... Have faith that when needed it will always be there...
Take time to find the beauty in the things that you see...
Take life's simple pleasures let them set your heart free... The idea here is simply to even the score... As you are met and faced with Life's Tug of War
