Thursday 15 July 2010

Can't Get No Satisfaction .........


Why do we tend to place our dissatisfaction in people solely upon their shoulders? In a relationship, is it truly our partner's responsibility to meet our needs?

Choosing to form a romantic bond with someone does not automatically dictate that one person must yield to the needs of another nor does it mean that someone must "change" in order to be an ideal mate.

In many cases when we are dissatisfied in our relationship/partner we should own our discontent as our own hang ups rather than that person not being good enough for us.

Why would we desire a genetic clone that walk, talks, and thinks as we do. When that is the case we do not want a person to love. We want a puppet to control.

We have to give people the freedom to be themselves and love them just the same.

A wise man once told me that just because someone does not love you the way you want to be loved does not mean that they do not love you the best way they know how.

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